how do u tell if someone is gay? i know this isn't the most straightforward question and doesn't have a concrete answer, but what cues do u look for? thanks :)
You cant tell if someone is gay. There are no outward signs, no “gay walk” or gay way of speaking. As a man, I am just attracted to other men who show attraction to me. Sorry. There is no secret handshake or secret mannerisms to look for.
The only cue I look for is if they show an attraction to me. I am not very aggressive socially - I dont always approach a guy - so I look for that. However, I AM aggressive privately, and a man who has that balance is perfection.
That being said, I guess I just lucked out in my life. Men usually approach me. Im not the most handsome thing out there, so I guess my vibe and warped sense of humour are attractors.